Thursday, January 18, 2018

Times change ~ the need for protection against crippling loss in family court devastating families

During my 18 + months of incarceration, I wrote something that I would like to share. I hope it will help those who may have to experiences this deep pain and sorrow from losing contact with your children and family and the fear of not knowing if you will ever see them again. 

What I found  more devastating than anything I have ever experienced in my life was being separated from my family and children. Prior to this time, I had contact with my children and family on a daily to weekly basis.  It is difficult for those who haven't experienced this to fully understand.

I hope and pray that nobody ever experiences this nightmare horror.   May your children, family and friends always be close at hand and held dear to your heart and daily keep them in your thoughts and prayers.  

I love my children so, why has god forsaken me?
What is in store, what if my fate?
Please god, I pray it will be good.
I miss everyone so, your heart can surely break in two.
I can't stop crying, my heart hurts so.
I long to see you, to be with you.
To hear my children's laughter, dry their tears.
How long can this pain and suffering last?
Will it overtake me and take it's toll on me?
I pray for wisdom each day to try to make sense of it all.
But it doesn't.  I'm hopeful one day I will see the total picture.
I know now to live each day as it it was your last.

Lies, and false accusations, need to be aggressively prosecuted as crimes in our family courts today.
The best interest of any child is to be assured never to have to live with a lying parent. Especially if the lie is used to get a fraudulent order, which are granted without investigating the claims. “Yeah, but they all lie”, some say. How many murders are avoided by not letting perpetrators get away with it? Lies are no different, and can be as deadly as any murder weapon. “Jews must be eliminated” was a lie that killed millions of innocents.
Divorce victims, male or female, should never be persecuted by liars winning in court. Parents in contempt hearings and custody battles should always be monitored and recorded by audio and video 24/7 to prevent or prosecute bad-mouthing, lies and alienation.  When one lies in family court the story is not true and there is no credibility.  What the perpetrator says and what the evidence says are not reconcilable and they are diametrically opposed.  In a murder trial this is what prosecutors use to help obtain murder convictions.

Let's pledge to make the politicians and media aware of all the knowledge we have of our Family Courts and how how they operate is really a crime against our children.   

Prior to my divorce I had never been inside a courtroom for any reason.  I was wrongfully jailed for over 18 months with no order regarding my alleged divorce contempt for nineteen days.  My joint legal custody was taken away at this contempt hearing where the only witness who testified against me was my former husband's girlfriend (and soon to be new wife) who was the widow of the magistrate judge in the same county.   There is no record of my arrest and incarceration for over 18 months at the Federal Bureau of Investigation or the Georgia Bureau of Investigation. My name has been changed in the evidence filings on the court docket at the Superior Court of Cobb County.  My corporation's money was collected and paid into the Registry of Cobb County Superior Court without any accounting for how much money was collected.  

Lies, and false accusations, need to be aggressively prosecuted as crimes in our family courts today. The best interest of any child is to be assured never to have to live with a lying parent. Especially if the lie is used to get a fraudulent order, which are granted without investigating the claims. “Yeah, but they all lie”, some say. How many murders are avoided by not letting perpetrators get away with it? Lies are no different, and can be as deadly as any murder weapon. 

Mothers and fathers should never be persecuted by liars winning in court. Parents in contempt hearings and custody battles should always be monitored and recorded by audio and video 24/7 to prevent or prosecute bad-mouthing, lies and alienation.  When one lies in family court the story is not true and there is no credibility.  What the perpetrator says and what the evidence says are not reconcilable and they are diametrically opposed.  In criminal trials prosecutors use this to help convict murderers but in our family courts today nothing is done about it and our children are not protected. Our children deserve the truth, and they are the true victims.

Please see for the evidence and further documentation that proves family court reform is long overdue.  The future lives of our children and grandchildren depend on it.

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Letters From The Cobb County Jail 2005

These are the letters I wrote while spending a little over eighteen months illegally incarcerated in the Cobb County jail and at work release in Cobb County, Marietta, Georgia.  At age 47, I had never been involved with any court system in my life, other than my divorce.  Never even had a ticket that I had to appear in court for.  So of course, it came as a real shock to me and my family  that I was locked up during my divorce contempt hearing.  Well more of a shock that I wasn’t  released for 18 ½ months, and that my new husband and his ex-wife were also locked up in the same jail.  I might add, my new husband Eddie's ex-wife was placed in the bunk below me at Work Release, yes we were bunk mates of all things.
It took me many years to figure out the why part.  Why were the three of us locked up in this suburban county jail in Cobb County Georgia? It made much more sense when I learned who my my ex-husband's witness to testify against me was. Since I was jailed at the court hearing (yes in court), it took me quite a while to find out who this witness was.  She was his live-in girlfriend at the time, the former county magistrate judge’s widow Robin Adams.  We didn’t have a prayer, and nothing and nobody could help us.  

Eddie (my new husband)  was arrested at his office on Monday April 18, 2005, for terroristic threats against my attorney Alan Manheim, my judge Adele Grubbs, and my ex-husband Bruce Ailion. I had been placed back in the Cobb County jail by Judge Grubbs on Friday April 15, 2005 after attorney Manheim filed the incorrect appeal in my case (and it was dismissed he never attempted to make the necessary corrections to the filing).  Eddie phoned my attorney Alan Manheim Monday morning April 18, 2005, demanding he return money that he was paid to file the wrong appeal.  Eddie had no prior criminal convictions (misdemeanor or felony) but was denied bond and not allowed first offender status. He remained in the county jail for approximately one year until he agreed under threats, duress and coercion to their plea, but had plead not guilty the entire time 11 1/2 months he was jailed with no bond.
Since the county jail was not co-ed , Eddie my new husband and I were in different areas.  Oddly, I was given permission to write to him.  Eddie kept all my letters, stamped and postmarked coming from me at the jail, which were mailed to Eddie at the same jail.  These letters also included letters I had written to my youngest son Brandon age 9.  I was hoping the entire time Eddie would be released from jail and give them to Brandon from me.  That did not happen. Eddie was banned from his home in Fulton county and all surrounding counties of Cobb County and could not even go home when he was released in April 2006. 
It is my sincere hope these words will inspire some, heal the pain of the injured, give hope to those in despair, and change some of the cruel world we now must learn to survive in.
My prayers are with those families who have lost loved ones and need help to heal.   My  prayers are also for those injured souls,  some wrongfully convicted, going through a nasty divorce, who need some uplifting and hope.  My hope is that my letters will help them through the toughest of times and help them heal throughout their lifetime.
If read daily my hope and prayers are that one will begin to live each day to its fullest, learn something from each day, help someone in greater need than oneself everyday, and become happier each and every day.
May 10, 2005
Dear Eddie:
I just found out from my attorney that you could not get a bond for your release.  This is crazy.  I cannot imagine why you can’t get a bond, you have no criminal record of any kind.  I told you something is very, very wrong.  I just got your letter and am sorry your sister and best buddy aren’t helping at all.  I guess it takes an emergency or crisis to find out who really cares.  These people are only out for themselves, I’m afraid.  Glad you got to speak with Ali finally.  I hope she is going to be okay she is too young to be on her own.  My daughter Alyssa came to see me on visiting day yesterday.  I think it is because I wrote to her about Brandon crying to my sister.  Poor boy, he is so worried about me, and my ex husband will not let him come here to see me.  I know he must really be upset and missing me.  I miss and love that boy so much!  He is way too young for all this grief and heartache.  I hope he will come on his birthday on May 16th, I have never not been with him on his birthday.  Alyssa said he will not stop crying, I know how he feels,  Like mother, like son.  Nothing they do to me can take away the love we have for each other, so they will not succeed in that.  That is what is happening here, I am afraid to say.  It will not work, they have no idea how I have raised my children.  Hopefully it will be a lesson for all someday. 
Saturday, May 14th is my best friends (only) daughter’s wedding.  My dress will go unworn, and I am so upset I will not be there.  After 25 years of close friendship, I really wanted to be there when she walked down the aisle.  Everyone will wonder why I am not there. They will know something is terribly wrong. 
I am thinking of you each and every moment.  Miss and love you, your in my heart and mind every minute of the day. 
Love, hugs, and kisses
May 24, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Adam is graduating from high school this weekend. Yes my oldest is graduating and I can't believe I will not get to see him get his diploma.  I guess that is another reason why we are both here now, so we can’t attend.  Unreal, the timing is unbelievable.  Looks like someone planned this.  I cannot believe I will miss my oldest son’s high school graduation.  It hurts so bad.  I should be getting my child support lowered now that he’s graduated, but that will never happen in this corrupt place.  I am here for back child support that I proved I paid, so my hope for ever getting it lowered is slim to none. 
My only hope is that I get a new judge,  one that will look at my evidence and allow me to testify in court.  My attorney filed a Motion for recusal since the judge is a witness in the case against you.  She said it is a violation of the judicial cannons for her not to recuse herself.  I don’t care how long I have to be here until I get appointed a new judge.
When we are released someday, no idea when that will be, we will need to leave here.  I will miss all the kids so much I don’t know what I will do.  But I think we should both leave.  Anything is better than this.  Well I’m still waiting.  At least I know who my real friends are now.  My sister came to visit me from Florida last week.  She is still in shock, but I’m glad she made the trip.  She knows how difficult this is for me and feels so bad. She was not invited to the graduation, as well as my parents.
Love you
May 28, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Well yet another week here.  This makes seven weeks, I seriously hope it is not eight.  Today is my parents 50th wedding anniversary and I will not be able to speak with them.  I am also missing my best friends only daughter’s wedding and already missed my oldest son’s graduation from high school.  I am so sad to miss this important events, I slept most of the day.  It looks rainy outside, just like my solemn mood.  The girls here are trying to cheer me up.  They came up with a fashion show for tonight.  It’s is amazing what these girls come up with.  I never laughed so hard, someone should have filmed it  It was hysterical.  They were stopped by the guards and they locked us down for the night.   There is so much crazy stuff going on here thank god I can sleep.   I hope and pray we are never apart this long ever again.  I hope you don’t have to read this and you are home, but they sure are taking a long time.  One of us has to get out of here, please god, let it be you or me.  I love you, miss you, gotta have you...
June 3, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Looks as if Bruce (my ex-husband) is trying to extort money from my family (parents), and you.  My attorney made it clear that neither one of you will comply with his demands.  My next hearing is July 6th, and they are taking my over the term leasing commissions and have been paying them into the registry of the superior court.  This amounts to over $1,000 per month, so why are they jailing me?  The judge stated she wants me  to come up with a plan for payment of $136,000 that I don’t have.  Even though I explained that I was fired from my job making $42,500 per year when she jailed me in court and I have no job to pay it.  I don’t know what job I will get, when and if I get out of jail, so how can I make a payment plan?  I don’t know how much money I will make now.  Does this make sense?  I guess I don’t have a very good attitude since I didn’t do what they convicted me of, and we received no money.  You paid the money to Mr. Reich (he did not pay you) and it is all on record, so how can they reverse what actually happened and say we owe the money.  It was already paid by us and there is proof of that.  No one asked for the proof or evidence, what is this a kangaroo court?
Love ya
June 10, 2005
Dear Eddie:
We cannot change the physical conditions of life,  but we cam be born each day spiritually, and change our hearts and souls to meet all conditions of life with a smile and happiness.   We know God and many love us and wants to teach us the true road to happiness.  We must always be seeking, trying to follow as we should, never giving up hope.  This is the only answer to our worries – whether falling prices, war or other physical disasters.   We can live on mountain tops daily and have many many happy returns of the day.  
Love and miss you more each day
June 18, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Today is Adam’s 18th birthday, wish I could spend it with him or at least wish him a happy day.  I hope he is getting ready for college and that he had a good graduation party.
I am writing to you from the holding cell outside the judges chambers.  My attorney is filing a motion for me for new trial and a motion for the judge to recuse herself.  If it is denied then they will appeal.  I hate going to court, they keep you in handcuffs all day (it hurts) and wake you up at 4 o’clock in the morning.  How ridiculous, they torture you.  I am praying for you and wish I could be at your hearing.  I am getting so tired of this and praying hard for a miracle, because that is what we need.  I miss you, love you, and hope you are keeping the faith and praying hard.  The days are going by faster now it seems.  I still think this is all just a very bad dream.  It is hard to believe it is real.  Jan came to visit me on Saturday to cheer me up a little.  She made a fence for the dogs, and now Cupcake and Diamond have a place to run.  I know she is taking good care of them, and Cher took Bear.  At least Cher has a huge yard for Bear to run in.  I thank god for my good friends who had to break in to the condo and rescue the dogs.   Do you realize my ex husband could be that sick?  He knew his son’s dogs were there, and we are both in jail, and he did nothing to get them?  How cruel is that?  He will have is retribution, remember Dog spelled backwards is God. 
Love you,
June 25, 2005
Dearest Eddie:
So much time to think here.  No phones, television, or distractions.  Each and every day I think of those who have passed on, my grandparents, great grandparents, and great great grandparents.  It’s if as if they are all just asleep for a little while.  They still are giving me words of wisdom, advice and inspiration.  I can’t help but think what would they would wish for me.  This has allowed me to accept way too much in my life and too many jobs to do them all well.  I am attempting to help some of girls in here.  They seem to have no one on the outside, no family, no friends, no one to care about them.  No one to inspire them or remember well.  No wonder they have turned to crime, drugs, prostitution., porn stars, etc.  I never really understood  what made people become criminals, drug addicts, and so forlorn.  It seems it is all about a lack of  inspiration, love and caring.  My heart goes out to these girls, some are so young.  It becomes a revolving door in here, they come in and out of the jail regularly. At least I feel like I made a difference and hope I have turned some of their lives around for the best.  I know some will write to me and keep in touch when they are released for guidance and help.
July 4, 2005
I have been sleeping a lot, I am sad and depressed.  When I do get out I will have some new friends.  I don’t consider some of our friends are true friends, they didn’t help you or I at all.  Maybe there is nothing they can really do? Thank God for my sister, Jan, and Cher.  I would hate to think what would have happened if they weren’t there.  I’ve read some good books and do exercise class everyday.  I’m trying to go to church whenever they have it.  Some of the girls are teaching me about life on the streets.  It seems so strange and different.  I don’t understand most of what they say, but I am learning.  I’m sorry  step father would not help you.  I wish I would reach my former mother in law, I know she would help us too. 
August 8, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Just got back from court and the judge denied all the motions to rescue herself and the motion for new trial.  My attorney says she couldn’t do that, deny her own recusal, but she did.  Who will do anything about it?  No one I’m afraid.  Now they will file my appeals.  I believe two or three different ones, running up the legal bills we cannot pay without borrowing the money.  I don’t care anymore, this is a racket, a disgrace, and must end sometime really soon.  Sorry for all the bad news, but I have come to expect the worse.  That’s all there is around here, it just gets worse and worse.  They are in it too deep now.  Can’t send it to another judge for fear they will found out.  I think Dr. Hill and some of the others must have been paid off to lie.  At least I caught them in the past, when they tried to illegally arrest me when we were at Michele’s college graduation in Athens.  Remember when they had witnesses that saw me steal a trailer from Bruce's (my ex husband) apartment in Marietta.  Only I was in Athens, not Marietta, (and I didn’t have a trailer hitch to pull it) so their paid witness lied.  Then there was Dr Hill’s temporary secretary, that said I broke into to Dr. Hill’s office.  Only I was in Florida that entire week.  That was a second paid witness to lie.  Wonder how many there are out there?  At least they got caught each time in the past.  So the fact is we know what we are up against. 
Please write, I love and miss you.

October 21, 2005
Dear Eddie:
I hope this note will cheer you up!  Please try to remain calm, getting angry only upsets you.  Why do you wish to upset yourself?  There is no point to this.  It is just foolish.  I want you to be happy and I want to make you happy.  Love is still love Eddie, and I love you.  You may not be able to hold me, or see my smile, but you know I truly love you.  Try to think of the memories we had.  Memory must become your partner now.  Hold them, nurture it.  Life may have ended for us now, just for awhile in jail, but love doesn’t have to end.  The only time we waste is the time we spend thinking we are alone.  You are not alone, so try to be happy and remember you are loved.  Of course, if the world were perfect, we would not be apart in the first place, would we?   Miss and love you.  Can’t wait to be together.
November 6, 2005
Dear Eddie:
God is always Better not Bitter.  God has caused me to be fruitful in the land of my affliction.  If we can accept adversity, enduring every pain.  Then we shall learn what we should know…. Our grief will turn to gain.
I finally spoke to Brandon, it was two weeks since I got to hear his voice.  I guess he heard me crying over the phone, I couldn’t stop.   I miss you so much now, more each day!   I hope and pray to God tomorrow there will be some answers for you.  When will we be in each others arms again?  This is getting to be too much for me know.  I’m not sure how much longer I can go on like this.  I want to see my family in Florida.  My dad is recovering well from his heart attack.   I wish I could be there for him and my mom.  I feel so guilty, I know my situation has caused this.  Hopefully I will get to see him soon. I know God will take care of him and he will be well again.  I wish I could squeeze you, hug and kiss you all over and all night long. Till then….
Love you
November 10, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Holding anger is a poison.  It eats you from the inside.  Hating is a weapon we think will attack the person who has harmed us.  But hatred is a curved blade.  And the harm we do to ourselves will take its toll.  Forgive them Eddie, just forgive.  You must understand why you feel whatever you felt and why now you no longer need to feel it.  Understand it.  God knows you are there, he will not forsake you, so don’t forget that.  There is a reason for all the pain, you just don’t know it yet.  But trust me, there is something you must know or learn or God wouldn’t keep you there.  You will know it someday, just not now.  Your still there and I love you still, doesn’t that matter?  Don’t feel like your life has been snatched away from you.  I’m still here!  Try to remember us and be happy.  Use your memories of all the good times to get you through.  I know you can do it.  Then dream about the times yet to come, we will share them together.  I love you.
November 18, 2005
Dear Eddie:
When I must leave you for a little while please do not grieve and shed wild tears or hug your sorrow to you through the years.  But start out bravely with a gallant smile.  And for my sake and in my name live on and do all things the same.  Feed not your loneliness on empty days. But fill each waking hour in useful ways.  Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer. And I will comfort you and hold your near. And never, never, worry or fear. For I am waiting for you and will always be here.   Cheer up, the final days in this horrid jail are here.  I will be praying everyday for you. Love, hugs, and kisses.
November 30, 2005
Dear Eddie:
I just spoke to Jan and she said you have written to me but I haven’t received any of your letters yet.  I’ve been reading a lot of books and writing letters.  I didn’t get any commissary this week because I was in the infirmary.  On Monday morning a crazy girl was put in our pod.  She was only there a few minutes and around 5:45 AM she attacked me.  She jumped me from behind, knocked me into the cinder block wall, and was smashing my head and body into the wall.  Then she started punching me.  The girls jumped out of bed and pulled her off of me or I would be dead.  The worst thing is the lumps on my head and I lost my big toe nail on my right foot.  Still wondering why that girl came in the pod and tried to kill me!  She never bothered anyone else and she jumped me from behind.  I never spoke to her or even looked at her.  It has made the girls in the pod very interested in my case.  They say I know something that is placing me in severe danger!  I wish I knew what it was.    The guard said I could file a warrant here. I am still waiting on the paperwork and her name.  But I can not get anyone to give it to me for over a week now.  So it has been a rough week.  I thought the worst with no food or supplies from commissary, but the girls in here have all shared and given me stuff.  I received a letter from Brandon a few days ago and he says he misses me.  He found out somehow that you are also in jail! I miss him so much and can’t wait to see him, I will hug and kiss him for a long time.  I also heard from Ali and Michelle and people are taking good care of them.  Oddly, I haven’t heard a word from my daughter Alyssa or Adam.  Wonder why?  Strange, you would think they would have the heart to send a letter.  Oh well, it is in times like these that you come to realize who really cares about you.  I will always love and care about them, but I don’t understand how they can behave this way.  It is so against what I have taught them from birth, and so unlike anyone in my family.  
Love you,
December 8, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Thank you for my life and all the things you have done for me.  I can’t compare you to another, so glad you are the only one.  I give thanks to heaven up above, for your love.  You are truly a godsend from up above.  I can’t imagine my life not being a part of you.  Still loving me regardless of what I choose to do.  I couldn’t pick a better lover, even if I had a choice.  Always caring, you just wish to call me to hear my voice.  I’m sorry I can’t be with you today. So I will write the things that to you I am unable to say.  Just know that you are with me in spirit, night and day.  I love you more than words can ever express.  Hope you know that in my eyes you will always be the very best.  Love you.
December 13, 2005
Dear Eddie:
I just got your letter, it was so good to hear from you on my birthday.  I haven’t spoken to you in over a month.  The last time we spoke I mentioned that their must be some purpose God has for our heartache.  We need to learn so many precious lessons, in every sorrow, trial and test.
I hope your are holding up… Remember- there are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dream and hug them for real.  We often only look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has opened for us.
Go find someone there who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day brighter.  Find the one who makes your heart smile. Dream what you want to dream.  Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be because you only have one life.  You only have one chane to do all the things you want.  The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes there way.  The highest future will always be based on a forgotten past.  You cannot go forward in life until you let go of past failures and heartache.
When you were born, you came into this world crying and all around you were loving you, laughing  and smiling.  Live your life so that at the end your laughing and they are crying.  Don’t count the years, count your cherished memories. Think of you constantly now, can’t wait to be home in our bed snuggled for the night. 
December 16, 2005
I went to see the Doctor here yesterday, finally, after numerous requests.  I was given Lexipro for depression and Doxypin for sleeping.  Hopefully, I will stop crying and the time will go by quicker.  I still can’t believe we are both in this jail.  It has been eight months now.  Thank god for Jan, she is doing all she can for us and then some.  I’m sorry you can’t speak with Ali or Michele.  I would not discuss my ex with them if you do get the chance to speak to them.  It will only upset them more, and they don’t need that.   There would be no point to have anyone speak with my ex husband.  He lied to the court and he is tied to courthouse officials.  Remember he is a lawyer and they all stick together.  Unless someone helps me to uncover the truth, I will be at there mercy.  Someday everything it will come out that he committed a fraud upon the court, his lies will be revealed, and the truth be known.  That is all that will matter in the end.  Someone will help me, I am sure.  This sort of travesty will not go unnoticed, there are still some good people that work for this county. It will only take one decent person working here to help me uncover the truth. 
Remember I love and miss you.  I can’t wait until this is all over and I can just cuddle in your arms.  Boy do I miss my bed and pillow.  Out of stamps now, hopefully I will be able to write again soon.
Love and miss you
Dec 24, 2005
Dear Eddie:
Got a bunch of your letters today! They all came at once, strange.  Maybe they are holding them and reading them here at the jail.  It wouldn’t surprise me if that’s what the guards do for entertainment around here.  Perhaps they think they will learn something from us by reading our letters.  For it is very strange that we are able to write to each other from the same jail.  Wish we didn’t have to use stamps, it’s ridiculous.  I haven’t told anyone here, I don’t think anyone else is allowed to write to each other.  Strange, very strange, yet I am thankful and pray it will be allowed to continue.
Here is some Christmas cheer, hope you enjoy!
Love and miss you 

Saturday, April 30, 2016

Judge Mary Staley was my orginial divorce judge but after eight months my judge was switched to Judge Adele Grubbs, WHY?

I first filed divorce from Bruce Ailion in 1996  The assigned Judge Flournoy retired and when Bruce Ailion filed divorce against me in April 2001 Judge Mary Staley was assigned the case.

After approximately 8 months of Judge Mary Staley hearing the case and issuing the temporary Order, the divorce judge in my case switched from Judge Mary Staley to Judge Adele Grubbs.  I never understood why, I never received any notice about what occurred other than the correspondence below.

The judge switch took place just prior to the final hearing and final divorce Order (by Judge Adele Grubbs) according to the  following documents from my attorney Robert Grayson.

Thursday, January 21, 2016

Dr Jacqueline Hill PHD and my child custody rights

I am living proof that custody rights can be taken by the courts without just cause.

I lost my joint legal custody at my October 1, 2004 contempt hearing below.
My joint legal custody for three children was taken away by the court without ever proving I was an unfit parent.  My first court experience was my divorce hearing; I never had been in a courtroom for any reason prior to my divorce.

In Judge Grubbs October 19, 2004 Order below, the first thing mentioned is that  my joint legal custody rights are terminated.

During the October 1, 2004 Contempt hearing testimony, according to the court transcript shown below. was given by Dr. Jacqueline Hill that my son Brandon was thriving under the care of his father, Bruce Ailion. Dr. Hill then stated "all three children are academically sound."

Definition of the word thrive thrive  (thrv) 
intr.v. thrived or throve (thrv)thrived or thriv·en (thrvn)thriv·ingthrives
1. To make steady progress; prosper.
2. To grow vigorously; flourish: "the wild deer that throve here" (Tom Clancy).

How can my son be thriving and academically sound when he is being held back a grade under the care of his father Bruce Ailion?  Your comments would be greatly appreciated, I would like to hear your responses on this question.  

When asked "Okay. So just to be very clear, you would recommend that custody remain as is" by my former husband's attorney,  Dr. Hill replies"I have no reason to recommend otherwise" (lines 6-8 below).

Then on cross examination shown below, my attorney David Canale questioned Dr. Jacqueline Hill about her testifying that Brandon was thriving educationally.   When asked by Canale "You said he was thriving educationally, I think is the word that you used.", Dr. Hill answered “he’s doing all right in school, yes”.
So here Dr. Hill's testimony has gone from thriving to doing all right.

Is being held back a grade doing all right?  What are your views on Dr. Hill's testimony?  I would love to hear from you.

Then attorney David Canale stated “but you are aware that, he in fact, he had been held back a grade.”  Dr. Hill answered “yes”.  David Canale asked "you are aware of that, and that happened in the custody of his father”.  Dr. Hill answered “yes”.

Then David Canale asked “have you done any kind of follow up investigation or had any contact with Brandon’s school about what his performance is like this year or last year?" Dr. Hill’s response was “I had some contact, I think, but I do not know if it was last year or the year before, but this year my understanding is that he is doing well.  I check it by just asking mostly.”  David Canale asked Dr. Hill “who do you ask?”  Dr. Hill replied “I ask the father you know; How is he doing and are there any particular problems at school? And if there were, and he wants me to investigate I don’t have any problem doing that.”  David Canale responded with the question “ but you have not specifically checked with the school  or the school teachers, or anyone like that?”  Dr. Hill responded “no not at the present time.”  David Canale  then asked “so any information you have about that actually comes from Mr. Ailion”.  Dr. Hill responded “that’s correct”.

So Dr. Hill  thinks she had some prior contact with Brandon's school.  Then she does not know if it was last year or the year before that she checked with my son's school or teachers to see how he is progressing after being held back a grade  She is now in court to testify about a child's well being, but for sure has only checked with his father recently about Brandon's school performance.  Dr Hill did not call the school to check on Brandon's performance prior to this hearing,  despite him being held back a grade under his father's care. This is clearly not in the best interest of my child. 

In checking the Georgia State Board of Examiners of Psychologists website, today  July 7, 2013, I was greatly relieved when I found that Dr. Jacqueline Hill’s license to practice as a psychologist has lapsed this year as shown below.

At least for now, Dr. Jacqueline Hill can no longer be involved in any custody cases in the state of Georgia.  

Under her license listing for Discipline History from the Georgia State Board of Examiners of Psychologists Dr. Jacqueline Hill has had two Public Consent Orders where she was placed on probation.

The first Public Consent Order filed September 22, 2008 against Dr. Hill is from an incident occurring in February 2005 (four months after Dr. Hill's testimony in my case on October 1, 2004) is below.   It says that during child custody proceedings Dr. Hill offered testimony about the children and their educational needs despite never having met the children and never having performed any diagnostic testing on the children.  It also states that on one occasion Dr. Hill allowed an unlicensed psychologist to perform testing on one of the parents.

The Second Public Consent Order filed May 27,2011 involving Dr. Hill is below. Please read paragraph 3 below, it states from 2009-2011 Dr. Hill was retained by several clients and guardians ad litem to perform parental fitness evaluations, child custody evaluations and other examinations for use in court proceedings and resolution of domestic disputes.  The Board received several complaints from these clients alleging Dr. Hill departed from and failed to conform to the minimum standard of acceptable and prevailing practice and care in her handling of these cases.  Dr Hill admitted to these Findings of Fact.

Please see the May 27, 2011 Second Public Consent Order below and what action was taken against Dr. Hill by the Georgia State Board Examiners Of Psychologists.

Despite the above testimony by Dr. Jacqueline Hill and my testimony at the Oct 1, 2004 hearing (shown in the court transcript below) about my son Brandon being held back a grade (I also had the school records as evidence) I lost my joint legal custody and had all my custody rights taken away by Judge Adele Grubbs.

My attorney David Canale asked me “you have included in your complaint a count for modification of custody.  Now, are there any concerns that you have about your minor son, Brandon, and his personal circumstances right now?”  My response was “Many.  My major concern is his schooling. And the fact that at the start of this year (August 2004 - May 2005 school year) he and his father did not attend the teacher-parent back to school night. And I was there.  He (Brandon) prepared a book for me that I would like to admit.  It’s right underneath that paper, the yellow book about his trip to Florida.  And that it goes through all his conferencing schedules, all the required reading logs, books that are to be read, and tests that are to be taken weekly, as to the accelerated reader program.”   David Canale asked me “do you have any information.”  My response was “his tardiness at school, where he was held back after he was put in the second grade.  He had started the second grade (August 2002- May 2003 school year) for a couple of months and because of Mr. Ailion, Bruce Ailion’s failure to provide his assignments weekly, all his reading logs,  and eleven tardies the first two months of school, they decided to put him back in first grade after two months of school had begun.”  David Canale asked me “that was in the previous year.  Is that correct?”  I answered “that was correct”.  David Canale then asked "Does he have any tardies or absences, unexcused  absences that you are aware of?"  My response was "He did all of last year, (August 2003- May 2004 school year) many."  Please see my testimony below.

Diane Woods was the original GAL during the divorce which was finalized in March 2002 and Dr. Jacqueline Hill the court appointed psychologist who performed testing for me, my husband and my children.. There was not a custody hearing after the divorce was final in March 2002.  At the October 1, 2004 contempt hearing  I was arrested in the courtroom for the alleged fraudulent sale of my marital home the Doral Property and back child support that I paid and proved.  I did not know that I had lost my joint legal custody until I received the October 19, 2004 Order.

For over 20 years I had been a licensed real estate broker and lived in east Cobb County.  My clients consisted of the Department of Veterans Affairs, the FDIC, law firms, doctors, major corporations, etc.  I was very well respected and had an excellent reputation in the business community.

In my care, all three of my children had excelled in school, sports, music and the arts. I volunteered at Sope Creek Elementary School teaching art history classes monthly from 1996-2002 (my oldest son and daughter attended kindergarten through fifth grade there).  From 1995 -2001, I was at times a co-leader in my daughters Daisy, Brownie and Girl Scout troop at Sope Creek Elementary, from the time she was in kindergarten through the fifth grade.  Additionally, I volunteered at Dickerson Middle School monthly working in the library from the time my oldest son Adam attended there in 1998 until 2001.   My daughter was so advanced in trumpet playing that after her second year at  Dickerson Middle School they had her teaching trumpet in the band classes at Walton High School.   I was mainly responsible for my youngest son Brandon winning the Reflections Arts Recognition Program award for Sope Creek Elementary school during kindergarten (2000-2001).   He went on to compete for the Reflections award for for Cobb County and the state level.  During kindergarten Brandon was also the Walmart poster boy for Garanimals, and his pictures were all over every Walmart in the Atlanta metropolitan area.  Brandon also sang in a local group who was asked to perform on the Coca Cola stage at the Macon Georgia Music Hall of Fame and at many fairs and events.  Yes, I am this mother  mentioned above who lost custody of her children.  It is hard to believe.  Nothing can be done to return all those years I lost with my children after I lost custody.  But something can and must be done so other mothers and fathers don't experience the deprivation and loss of their children when parental custody rights are terminated by our family courts without just cause.

The crime committed against the parent who loses custody is described best by Dr. Karen Huffer in her book about Legal Abuse Syndrome (PTSD),  and how it plays out after you've been traumatized.  She wrote two books Legal Abuse Syndrome and "Unlocking Justice.  The targeted parent is often barraged with legal proceeding after legal proceeding in courts that do not understand the problem called LAS or Legal Abuse Syndrome according Dr. Karin Huffer.  Dr. Huffer states that" LAS is a form of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and is not a mental illness but more like psychological abuse that is inflicted upon the person causing them emotional pain, suffering and confusion". She states "that LAS stems from corrupt or poorly managed court situations that perpetrate and destroy another person with false allegations, abuses by the courts or vexatious litigation's that are filed in the courts".  In other words she says it is basically, “psychic injury, not a mental illness. It is a personal injury that develops in individuals assaulted by ethical violations, legal abuses, betrayals, and fraud. And it is the abuse of power and authority and a profound lack of accountability in our courts, which compound an already stressful experience.”

Joan Kloth-Zanard Executive Director and Founder of PAS Intervention and Dance to End Child Abuse has conducted research on the Affects of PAS on the Targeted/Alienated Parent. According to Joan Kloth-Zanard “The targeted parent becomes as wounded emotionally as the children.  They are forced to endure endless living deaths of their children who are still alive but dead to them, and thus never have closure.  This  abuse is then compounded by financial damages and worse, corrupt/unknowledgeable courts that do not appropriately handle these type cases.  Parental Alienation is a devastating form of psychological abuse.  We know that it wreaks havoc for the children.  But what about the Targeted/Alienated Parent (TP)?  How does all of this affect them? For years we have talked about the psychological trauma and damages that children of high conflict divorce must endure when one parent deliberately impedes their relationship with their other loving parent.  The statistics, signs and symptoms are well documented.  From emotional problems, to substance abuse problems, to anger and low-self-esteem, children of high conflict divorce are damaged by the psychological abuse of Parental Alienation.   But what about the Alienated/Targeted Parent.  This parent is being berated, ignored, defamed, slandered and had the most horrific things said about them, must try to stand up strong against all this anger, hatred and rage.”
Wendy Titelman, who lost custody of her two young daughters in Cobb County Superior Court has published a book Let My Children Go. Wendy Titelman, and I both had Diane Woods involved in our custody cases.  Her book describes loss of parental rights (visitation) and custody and I strongly recommend it for any parent who has lost custody of their children.  I refer to Let My Children Go often, it has helped me a great deal.  I hope and pray it will help others realize that change is long overdue in our nations family court system especially when it comes to parental rights and custody issues.  

This blog is dedicated to all those mothers and fathers who have been unjustly deprived by the family courts of their basic fundamental right to be a mother or father with equal custody rights.  Depriving a mother or father of custody over their children, for no just cause, is a crime against children.

Thursday, April 16, 2015

I was working on the sale of land tracts in Circle 75 Office Park- NOW the BRAVES STADIUM

After the Braves announced they were moving to the Circle 75 Office Park location in Cobb County (November 11, 2013) I had a rude awakening.

During my initial employment with Advantis GVA, Buckhead office I began working with the owners of Circle 75 Planned development to sell one parcel of the Circle 75 Office Park. 

I began my employment at Advantis in January 2002, and in February 2002 Jerome Baum was also hired as shown here in the press release.
Jerome Baum was hired as a Senior Director of Investment Sales and I was hired as Director of Office Properties.

After a short time after his arrival, (approximately 4 or 5 weeks) Mr. Baum approached the Buckhead Advantis Office's Managing Director Richard Byrant to make me his partner.  I did not know Jerome Baum. I had never had any business or personal dealing with Mr. Baum at the time he made this request.  I began working with Jerome Baum in investment sales sometime in March 2002 (I switched from Office Properties) and he offered to train me and split all real estate transactions. During my entire time working under Jerome Baum's direction I never earned a dime.

During my training I learned from Mr. Baum that he was a close neighbor (next door or a few doors away) to Hansell (Hap) Smith.  At the time Hansell Smith was a member of the Marietta Housing Authority, he was there from 1996- May 2006, here is the article

I recently learned that Jerome Baum and Hansell Smith both lived on the street in front of Judge Adele Grubbs.  So they were all neighbors. 

In early February 2002, I had begun to work on the potential sale of the parcel 15 (approximately 17 acres) of the Circle 75 Planned development.  The site plan was for two potential office building of 100,000 square feet each.

Tract 15 of the Circle 75 Planned development was not listed for sale in February 2002.   I was given the sales information (by the owner's representative at B.F. Saul Company) and was asked to bring it to prospective purchasers.  Richard Bryant  (Managing Director of Advantis Atlanta office) came to this meeting with me. I had previously worked with one of Circle 75 owner's representatives for many years and made the introduction.  Jerome Baum showed up at Advantis a few weeks after the initial meeting with Dick Bryant, B.F. Saul Property Company's (owner's of Circle 75) representative, and myself.  At the time Jerome Baum arrived and began his employment at Advantis the possible sale was ongoing with a potential purchaser.

On June 4, 2003, I was given additional information from B.F. Saul Property Company (owners of Circle 75) to sell tract 12 for residential town home development.  I requested help from another agent at the Atlanta Advantis office Mark Hollan.  Mark Hollan and I began to work on finding a purchaser for tract 12 of the Circle 75 Planned development. 

When I left Advantis in September 2003, Mark Hollan sent a referral commission agreement to me at my real estate brokerage company Deerfield Real Estate Services, LLC (which was active until last year 2014). 

Mark Hollan, (now at Lee & Associates) represented B.F. Saul Company on the sale of the office buildings ( buildings 900, 1000, and 1100, Circle 75 Parkway) at the Circle 75 Planned development.   This sale was announced on October 29, 2013, before they announced the Braves stadium relocating to Circle 75.

The Braves announced their move to Circle 75 in Cobb County on November 11, 2013

In 1985, B. F. Saul Company had completed the development of buildings 900, 1000, and 1100,  Circle 75 Parkway, with a total of  approximately 710,000 square feet.  These were the three office buildings sold by Mark Hollan (representing B.F. Saul Company) to Scott & Associates.

Judge George Kreeger & Hylton Dupree Order March 6, 2012 and my arrest in KY March 30, 2013

Judge George Kreeger/Hylton Dupree civil divorce contempt Order filed March 6, 2012, entered into the NCIC as a felony fugitive warrant with extradition to 48 states and my arrest in Kentucky March 30, 2013.
I was entered into the NCIC as a felony fugitive warrant with extradition to 48 states.

The Order was prepared by Hylton Dupree and signed/filed on March 6, 2012 by Judge George Kreeger over the same contempt charge (filed by Judge Adele Grubbs on October 19, 2004), see blog post the NCIC national data base as a felony fugitive warrant with extradition to 48 states. My name was placed the NCIC national data base as a felony fugitive in a warrant requiring my extradition from 48 states.  

There was no District Attorney’s (at the time it was Cobb County District Attorney Vic Reynolds) Request For Extradition Authority Form Signed and no Magistrate Judge’s Order. 

The “HIT” confirmation (person responsible) for my arrest in Kentucky on March 30, 2013,was the name Stephenson *, from the Cobb County Sheriff’s office.  I don’t know if there is someone name Stephenson that worked for the Cobb County Sheriff’s office on March 30, 2013.  There was the Cobb County Superior Court Clerk named Jay Stephenson’s whose last day of employment there was December 31, 2012.   The arrest “HIT” confirmation was given on March 30, 2013, which was three months after Jay Stephenson’s last day as Clerk of Superior Court of Cobb County.  Judge George Kreeger announced his retirement/resignation on July 4, 2012, and his last day as a Cobb County Superior Court Judge was September 30, 2012.

* If anyone is aware of a Cobb County, Ga. Sheriff’s employee Stephenson who gave the "HIT" for my arrest with this warrant process, I would appreciate any information.  
Thank you.

Below the name of Confirmer of the "HIT":  Stephenson 

Remarks:  Warrant is Active.  Please place a hold on this above subject.  We will extradite.  Please contact Invest. Claunch at 770-499-4672. 

I was not extradited to Georgia.

See NCIC “HIT” confirmation below.

I was arrested for this civil matter on this felony fugitive warrant (with full extradition) from Cobb County on March 30, 2013, after leaving a business meeting in Flemingsburg KY.  There was a plain clothed KY State Trooper (from Flemingsburg named Chad Boling) who was at the meeting who called and gave the tip about my location, according to one of the three arresting officers Kentucky State Trooper Pat Zalone.  At no time did anyone know where my husband and I were going when we left the meeting.  We were on our way to the dollar store to purchase some Seven Up for our daughter who had already arrived at our home from Georgia, going in the opposite direction of home. 

I was the passenger when we were pulled over less than a mile from the meeting by Kentucky State Police Trooper Zalone, Fleming County Police Officer Aaron Workman and Fleming County Sheriff Deputy Jeremy Meade.  The initial stop was for a seat belt violation. 

After being surrounded by three police officers, my husband (the driver) was given a ticket for no seat belt.  He had removed it when he saw the three law enforcement officers. My husband was then removed from the truck and asked to sit in the truck bed.   KSP Trooper Pat Zalone ordered Sheriff’s Deputy Jeremy Meade was to stay with him in the back of the truck.  My husband became angry and asked, "Why are you separating me from my wife”? 

After my husband was removed to the back of the truck, KSP Trooper Zalone saw my cell phone that was lying in my purse, picked it up and took it back to his patrol car.  I was still seat-belted in but being guarded at my door by Fleming County Police Officer Aaron Workman and told not to leave.  After about ten minutes I unbuckled my seatbelt and went  out the drivers side door hoping to discover what KSP Trooper Zalone was doing with the cell phone.  He was searching the phone and Fleming County Deputy Jeremy Meade and my husband (still in the back of the truck) saw me and heard me say, “Why are you searching my cell phone”? I have nothing to hide. I sensed something was terribly wrong. 

I was ordered back to the truck, and went to the truck.  When I got there Fleming County Police Officer Aaron Workman was still at the passenger door so I asked him to let me back in the truck, he did. KSP Trooper Zalone handed me back the cell phone.  I was then asked for identification and told KSP Trooper Zalone I had none. I had no wallet or identification with me, I was going to a business luncheon meeting, and our daughter was due to arrive to visit from Georgia so we were going to hurry back home (she had called and told us she was at our home waiting for us).  Earlier when they were issuing the ticket to my husband for the seat belt violation they took his driver license and ordered me to empty out the glove compartment, which I did.  They obtained the insurance and registration information.  They knew his name but not mine.  

I was then ordered to remove the contents of my purse, which I did.  My sister gave the purse to me, when she visited at Christmas a few months earlier.  There were some items in one of the compartments, which I did not know were there. There were some old expired credit cards, a medical card with some numbers on it and a picture ID from a B.J.’s store which was clearly not me.  Trooper Zalone took them and said “Wendi Cole”.  I said there is no one by that name the name has been changed.  This is because my sister was divorced a few years earlier and changed her name back to her maiden name.

Trooper Zalone became very angry and asked, “What is the name” and I answered “Wendi Ferber”.  He left with the items and returned to the truck and said, “There is no person by the name Wendi Ferber or Wendi Cole”, I think you are someone who has a warrant out for your arrest”.  I said, “I am Marla Wright and there is an illegal warrant out for my arrest from Georgia, and this purse was given to me by my sister, yes there is such a person”.  I was then charged with giving an officer a false name, but Trooper Zalone returned all the expired credit cards, picture id and papers back to me.  He never kept the evidence and his Police Report states that he was given items in the name of Wendi Ferber.  There were no items in my possession or that were given to him with that name. 

These items were not allowed to be entered into the Fleming County court case as evidence, and I was never allowed to testify or ever speak during the entire jury trial. My public defender Josh Hitch never prepared my defense so I was not able to testify and produce the evidence, which I have. I have had two public defenders, the first Crystal Ball one was taken off the case after the first suppression hearing and obtaining the NCIC “Hit” Confirmation records from Georgia.  I was told Crystal Ball was on leave so I tried to find her on the Kentucky State Bar Directory. However, there was no Crystal Ball listed but I did find a Crystal Love listed which appears to be her. 

I was arrested in Flemingsburg Kentucky for the Cobb County Georgia Sheriff’s Office felony warrant with full extradition on my civil divorce case, which was dismissed by Fleming County District Court Judge Frank H. McCartney.  I was also charged with giving an officer a false name and was held in the Mason County Kentucky jail for five days with no extradition hearing.  According to Fleming County Attorney John C. Price, Cobb County Georgia never answered Kentucky when they were contacted about the NCIC felony warrant with extradition to 48 states.

My case for giving a false name has been before the Kentucky Court of Appeals who upheld my conviction. The case is currently before the Kentucky Supreme Court and has been docketed for hearing to decide whether to grant discretionary review March 23, 2015. 

I’ve lived in Kentucky since November 2006 and have never even had one ticket.   I have never had any criminal charges filed against me in my life. I had never been in a courtroom for any case, filed by me or against me prior to my Cobb County divorce that I filed in 1996.